How to Feel Free All the Time
I love the 4th of July because it truly is about independence and it always makes me really think deeply about freedom and independence. And I don’t mean the political kind (although that certainly makes all the rest of it possible). I mean the true freedom and independence to live our lives the way we want to live them.
So what does freedom mean to you? It can mean all sorts of different things to different people. I like this definition –
True freedom is the ability to have or do or be anything you want.
That pretty much says it all, doesn’t it? But sadly, I find that when I talk to other people about freedom, they almost always immediately give me reasons why they can’t have or do or be anything they want. And the two most common reasons they give me are Money and Other People.
Now I will certainly agree with you that having more money does make things more possible and it certainly gives you the feeling of more freedom, and that’s what you’re going for – the feeling of freedom.
It’s a mindset, it’s a feeling and you can bring it in, no matter what the condition of your bank account.
The other reason people tell me they can’t live their life the way they truly want is because of other people. It’s usually a spouse, partner, girlfriend/boyfriend, child, boss, parent or someone else. Another person who is making it “impossible” for them to live the way they want to live.
Guess what? It’s just not true.
While it is true that we have responsibilities to other people, it’s your choice whether you allow other people to control your life. I’m not saying you don’t need to take care of your child, of course you need to take care of your child. But who’s running your household? Who makes the rules? When I was growing up, everything was planned around my parents, not around the children.
And I’m not saying you don’t need to take care of your spouse/partner/girlfriend/boyfriend. Of course you do. You are together to help each other be the best you can be. But does that mean giving up your own knowing and independence? I don’t think so.
It’s so interesting to me – we work with a lot of couples and very often there is a “thing” that one person in the relationship wants to do and thinks they can’t because the other one won’t “let” them. They don’t tell the other person, or if they do, it’s always in an angry, nagging way. What I’ve discovered is that when one partner can hear your heart’s desire from your heart (and not from anger and nagging), they actually WANT their partner to have the “thing” and be fulfilled.
Are you living a life of freedom and independence? Do you want to? What is one small change you could make right now in honor of Independence Day to start you on that path? Figure out what it is.
If you’re struggling to find your freedom and your independence – to find the true you that’s screaming to come out – it’s probably time to do a Sedona Soul Adventures retreat. We’ll custom design the retreat for you (or both of you for a couple) to eliminate the blocks that are holding you back and give you the tools you can take home to truly integrate peace and freedom into your life.
And why should you choose Sedona Soul Adventures? Because, quite simply, we are the best, no one does what we do and no one gets the results we get.
Did you know we were named “Best in Sedona” for Retreats in 2020? This is the first year that the Best in Sedona included retreats and we are so honored. And the reason we got this honor is because of the very real and lasting results we get. Just look at the verified reviews we’ve gotten just in the past week.
When I say “verified,” I mean these are reviews that are done through Trustpilot, a third party review service, so you know for sure they’re real.
- Charlene says that after her Soul Adventure, she feels “light and joyful, full of life with new tools to guide me safely on my continued growth in my life”
- Courtney says, “I’m experiencing the world in a different way”
- Rhea said their Couples Retreat was “life changing” and “we’re now happy together”
- Mary said that not only did their Couples Retreats help her and her husband to focus on the good things in their marriage, she experienced an enhancement of “my own self worth”
- Christine says she released her “grief and anger” over the death of her husband and she feels like she found herself again
These are just reviews from this past week. How amazing is it that people are feeling more “light and joyful” and “experiencing the world in a different way”?
How fabulous is it that couples are having life changing experiences that are bringing them back together again, by focusing on the good things they have in their marriage?
How fantastic is it to really feel your self worth and know that you’re worthy of love?
And how sacred is it that someone who just lost their beloved husband to cancer in January, was able to release her grief and anger, and feels like she found herself again.
Courtney says, “I’m experiencing the world in a different way.”
Christine says she released her “grief and anger” over the death of her husband and helped her find herself again.
Rhea said their Couples Retreat was “life changing” and “we’re now happy together.”
Mary said that not only did their Couples Retreats help her and her husband to focus on their attributes, she experienced an enhancement of “my own self worth.”
Leila says her retreat was “a transformative, life-changing experience for me.”
Charlene says that after her Soul Adventure, she feels “light and joyful. Full of life with new tools to guide me safely on my continued growth in my life.”
How about you? Would you like to feel lighter and more joyful?
Would you like to find yourself?
Do you have grief or anger that needs to be released?
How’s your relationship?
Wouldn’t it be great to come back into the love and sizzle that you used to have? Wouldn’t it be fabulous to have a “life changing” experience with your partner?
That’s what we do all day every day. We figure out what’s holding you back from the life or relationship of your dreams, root out the blocks and gunk, and bring you back into connection with the highest part of yourself on all the levels – physical, mental, emotional, spiritual.
From that place you feel free – and in my opinion, that’s what true freedom is all about.
Call us and get some of that freedom for yourself.
Call us today or Click here and we’ll call you. One of our Angel Guides will connect with you (or both of you for a Couples Retreat) and we’ll go deep, to discover what’s holding you back from having the life or relationship of your dreams.
Remember, there’s no cost or obligation and we’re even open on Sunday, because we’re here for you!
Wishing you a week filled with purpose!