Divorce Attorney Shares Relationship Checklist - Sedona Soul Adventures

Divorce Attorney Shares Relationship Checklist

Those of you who have been with me for a number of years know that I was a divorce attorney for over 20 years in Omaha, Nebraska. And now for the past 20 years, I’ve been doing work with couples helping them stay together. Funny, isn’t it?

A couple of years ago I did this video and I came across it again – and it’s just so important.

It’s a Relationship Checklist. These are what I see as the most insidious things that cause the biggest problems (and issues that lead to problems) in a relationship. Some of them might not be the usual things that you think of…And this is all based on my over 40 years of working with Couples.

Take a look at yourself, and at yourself within your relationship, as you go through the checklist.

Even if you don’t like all your answers to the Checklist, don’t despair, there is hope!

We see it all the time. Come to Sedona and do a Couples Retreat.

One of our Soul Guides will speak with each of you separately, really getting at what’s going on, what the issues are and what both of you want. Then they’ll put together the perfect retreat that’s right for the two of you.

Because each retreat is completely custom designed and the sessions are all completely private (not in groups), you’ll get exactly what you need. It will bring you back into the love and connection you’re craving.

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Or if you’d prefer, call us at (928) 204-5988 or request a call from one of our Soul Guides.


Get your free copy of our “Sedona Guide to Couples Retreats”


Did you know Sedona Soul Adventures was named
“Best of Sedona” for Retreats for 2020, 2021 & 2022 and
“Best Marriage Retreats in the US” 2017-2022?
And Bride’s Magazine named us one of the
“11 Best Couples Retreats Around the World” in 2022.

It’s because what we do gets results – call us now, let us help. As I always say, if you knew what could happen, you’d be calling right now.

Would you like to speak to someone today about doing a Soul Adventure? We’re even open on Sunday, because we’re here for you!
Remember, there’s no cost or obligation and you can
do it in-Sedona or At Home.
Call us at (928) 204-5988 or request a call from one of our
Soul Guides and they will call you.


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We’ve added a 2nd Egypt trip! March 9-22, 2023
Plus a 5-day add-on to Jordan & Petra (March 4-10)
100% Refundable through September 1, 2022

As we announced last week, our first Egypt trip filled up so quickly, we’ve added a second trip plus an add-on to Jordan & Petra! I’m so excited! Now these are filling up fast and I don’t want you to miss out!

EGYPT TOUR – March 9-22, 2023
JORDAN JOURNEY – March 4-10, 2023
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PLUS, I’m so incredibly excited to tell you that we have now added a 5-day add-on to Jordan and Petra!!

Here’s your chance to go on this trip of a lifetime, but you must act fast!

I’m even more excited than usual (and remember, this will be my 23rd trip to Egypt!) because:

  • The incredible Grand Egyptian Museum will be opening in November.
  • We’ll be on a fabulous new cruise ship that I’ve never been on before.
  • I’m finally taking a group to Jordan and Petra! I went there the first time in 1983 and I’ve always wanted to go back.


I can’t tell you how excited I am to finally see the new Museum!


We’ve been watching its construction for many years and it’s HUGE!

The old Museum was built in 1905 and there have been so many incredible finds since then (including King Tut!), that it’s never been able to hold all the treasures. I’m going to be seeing things I’ve never seen before and I can’t wait! We’re going to spend an entire day there.

We are also on a new cruise ship (one I’ve never even seen) and I am told by my Egyptian travel partners that it is absolutely incredible!

We go to all the must see places:


  • The Great Pyramid (including 2 hours of private time just for our group for ceremony)
  • The Sphinx (where we have special admission to do ceremony between the paws of the Sphinx — this is closed to the general public)
  • Temple Complex of Karnak
  • Luxor Temple (which we see lit up at night — it’s other worldly!)
  • Abu Simbel (the largest statues in the world)
  • The new Grand Egyptian Museum (to see the complete King Tut exhibit and all the other treasures)

And we go to places that the average tourist doesn’t go to, with special admissions provided for our group.


  • Tomb of King Tut
  • Tomb of Ramses VI
  • Tomb of Seti I
  • Isis Temple at Philae
  • Hathor Temple at Dendera
  • Horus Temple at Edfu
  • Kom Ombo (dedicated to the crocodile god Sobek and Horus)
  • The Temple of Abydos
  • The Osirion (to see the Flower of Life)
  • Tomb of Queen Nefertari (which is so incredibly beautiful it’s called “The Sistine Chapel of Ancient Egypt”)

And now for the first time, we’ve decided to do a 5-day add-on to Jordan and Petra in between the two trips, so that people from each trip can experience these amazing places!

We’ll be going to Petra to see one of the most spectacular places on Earth, Wadi Rum, the Dead Sea and Jerash.

Petra was one of the most important cities on the ancient trading routes of the Middle East back in the 1200’s. And then it faded into obscurity and for many years people in the West thought it didn’t even exist, that it was a kind of Shangri La that was mystical and not real.

But in the 1800s, a Westerner disguised himself as a Bedouin and was taken there. It was re-discovered and became known as “The Lost City.” Now it’s become a Unesco World Site, because it is so extraordinary.

Do you remember the ending of the movie “Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade”? This is the one where Sean Connery plays Indiana’s father. Towards the end of the movie they are taken to this mystical place where the Holy Grail has been kept for millennia (that part isn’t true). At the very end, we see them riding off into the sunset away from this incredible place. Here’s a picture that shows the incredible stone structure, and why this place is called “the Rose City.”

In addition to Petra, we’ll visit Wadi Rum, the place that is also known as

“Mars on Earth”. The landscape here is so striking and so incredible that many movies about Mars have been made here, including The Martian (2015), The Last Days on Mars (2013), Red Planet (2000), Mission to Mars (2000), etc. Many other films also have been filmed in Wadi Rum, like Transformers: Revenge of the FallenPrometheus and Lawrence of Arabia. The real Lawrence of Arabia made his camp here during his campaigns. Wadi Rum is huge, over about 183,000 acres!

We’ll also spend an amazing day at a beautiful resort on the Dead Sea — on that day I intend to have a massage and a mud bath!

We will also visit the ancient city of Jerash. Jerash is considered one of the largest and most well-preserved sites of Roman architecture in the world outside Italy. And is sometimes referred to as the “Pompeii of the Middle East” because of its size, the extent of excavation and the incredible level of preservation.

Get all the information on the Jordan and Petra add-on here.

What an amazing addition this will be to this already incredible trip!

Is Egypt calling you? For all the information on our Egypt Trip, click below.

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Egypt Pricing

Petra Add-On Pricing

Get all the information on the all-inclusive pricing here.


If you’d like to go on one or both of these trips, YOU MUST ACT NOW! The first trip sold out in just a few weeks and I know that’s what will happen with this trip.

Please note: The Jordan add-on is an add-on to either the First Egypt trip or the Second Egypt Trip, it is not a separate trip.

Read testimonials from all the years we’ve gone.

If you have any questions, email me at [email protected].

If you already know you want to go, place your deposit today for the Egypt trip.

Click here for the Petra add-on.

Or call me (928) 204-5988 – I love talking about Egypt!

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I hope you’ll join us!

Wishing you a week filled with nurturing!

Debra Stangl

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