If You Don’t Release Your Core Wound, You Can’t Ever Be Really Happy

September 6, 2024

I’m so excited about my dear friend (and SSA Practitioner), Sequoia Rauch, coming out with his book, “Discovering and Healing Your Core Wound.”

This is a great book and one of the reasons I love it so much is because it deals with an issue that I’ve been working with (personally and professionally) for over 40 years.

It’s really as simple as this:

Unless and until you find, release, and heal your Core Wounds, fears, traumas,
limited beliefs, patterns, blocks, etc.
(what I affectionately call “gunk”),
you simply can’t live a truly happy life or have a fabulous, juicy,
contented relationship.

Discovering and Healing Your Core Wound by Sequoia Rauch

And here’s why – unless and until you heal the gunk, it’s going to keep on coming up over and over again to be healed.

If you have the Core Wound of “I’m not loveable,” unless that’s healed, your soul is always going to keep bringing in people who don’t really love you on a deep level.

It’s so interesting to me—I was a divorce attorney for over 20 years; during that time I had a number of people for whom I did three divorces. And what I could see is that they were marrying the same person over and over again, they just had a different name. Their Core Wounds were never healed. They kept putting themselves in situations where they could have been healed (the marriages), but instead, every time their Core Wound came up for healing, instead of doing something to heal it, they said something like, “I don’t like you, I’m leaving” and they were onto the next relationship (and the next divorce).

Unhappy at work

If you have the Core Wound of “I’m not enough,” can you see how that will impact your life? You’ll never be good enough for anything, not a great education, not a great job, not a fabulous relationship.

The way Core Wounds work is that even if you get a great job, something will come up to mess it up, because the Wound is coming up for healing. You’ll find you have a difficult boss, or you hate your co-workers, etc., etc. 

Until you figure out, “Oh wow, there it is again!” and do something about it, you’ll keep living out the same old problems and patterns over and over again.

I know, because this is my Core Wound, “I’m not enough.” I went through years and years of therapy and no therapist ever uncovered that. They said I was “codependent” (I was) and had abandonment issues (I did), but they never really got down to the real cause of what was really going on with me.

When I was 26 and I started on my spiritual path, I spent years doing different kinds of healing modalities (meditation, visualization, energy work, hypnosis, plus lots of astrology and psychic readings) and they made me feel a little better (and actually made me feel more connected sometimes), but again, they weren’t actually getting down to what was really causing the trouble.

Looking back now I can see that my Core Wound kept showing up over and over again in failed marriages, money problems, my work as a lawyer not making me happy, and just a general dissatisfaction about life – since I wasn’t enough, nothing was ever “enough.”

It wasn’t until I came to Sedona that all that changed. I finally, finally got it that the process of being healed and getting really happy is two-fold:

  1. Finding, releasing and healing the gunk that’s causing the problems.
  2. Coming into connection on all the levels – physical, mental, emotional and spiritual.

Coming to Sedona and working with these amazing healers finally changed all that for me and that’s why I started Sedona Soul Adventures. I knew that nobody else out there was doing this process that we do. I wanted other people to know that real and lasting change is possible.

That’s why Sequoia’s work (plus our other Practitioners) is so amazing and incredible. To really find, release, and heal this stuff is just so incredible, it's why everyone describes our retreats as life-changing!

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And then the next part is doing processes that really bring you into connection, into those feelings of bliss and joy, feeling fabulous, things like breathwork, Spiritual Transformation, Soul Source Union.

When you’re operating in connection, your life (and your relationship) takes on a whole new meaning and a whole new way of being.

This is also why, when we’re doing a Couples Retreat, we start out with each person doing individual sessions. Your gunk is different than your partner’s gunk. And what brought you to where you are is different than what brought them to where they are. Once we find, release and heal the gunk, then they can come into connection with each other in a whole new way. It’s so beautiful.

So please read Sequoia’s book - buy it here at the special launch price. We’re trying to make it hit #1 today and you can help.

It will give you such a great understanding of Core Wounds, how they work, and the kind of havoc they’re creating in your life and in the lives of those around you. It can help you on the path of your healing.

And if you’d like to go all the way and really come into connection, then give us a call about doing a Sedona Soul Adventures Retreat Intensive.

We’ll find, release, and heal your gunk and bring you into connection on all the levels. Can you even imagine what your life (or your relationship) will be like once you do that?

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Call us at (928) 204-5988 or request a call from one of our Soul Guides and they will call you. They'll connect in with you in a deep way to bring you from where you are to where you want to be.

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Darcy went from lost, self-critical and anxious to strong positive and at peace

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This is so typical of what happens during a Soul Adventure. People like Darcy come to us feeling the effects of their gunk (“anxious, unsure, bad decisions, lost and rudderless”). Then when we find, release, and heal the gunk and bring them into connection, they feel “strong, positive, and at peace with more joy and more possibilities.” That’s the result of clearing the gunk and coming into connection.

Would you like some peace and joy? Give us a call and speak with one of our Soul Guides. There’s no cost or obligation and you will be amazed at what happens.

Like I always say, “If you knew what could happen, you’d be calling right now!”

Call us at (928) 204-5988 or request a call from one of our Soul Guides and they will call you.

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Did you know Sedona Soul Adventures was named
“Best of Sedona” for Retreats for 2020-2024,
“Best Marriage Retreats in the US” 2015-2024 and
one of the "11 Best Couples Retreats Around the World"
by Bride's Magazine in 2022? Plus we were named one of
Global Radiance Review's "20 Most Trustworthy Companies of 2023"

It’s because what we do gets results - call us now, let us help. As I always say, if you knew what could happen, you’d be calling right now.

What area of your life do you need help with most right now…

Your relationship?
Finding your life purpose?
Loss of a loved one?
Healing & pampering?
Or is it something else?

Because we’re here for you - and we’re even open on Sunday!

Remember, there's no cost or obligation to speak with a Soul Guide and have them custom-design the perfect retreat just for you in Sedona or At Home.

Call us at (928) 204-5988 or request a call from one of our Soul Guides and they will call you.

Wishing you a week filled with healing and connection!

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  1. HI Sequoia.
    I am so sad because I try to order your book Rob spoke about and gave us the link for today butasI amfrom Switzerland it refuses to let me buy it from Kindle for 5dollar

    I would even pay more!

    Please help me!
    Blessings and immense gratitude to you!

    Keike

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