Or if you’d prefer, call us at (928) 204-5988 or request a call and one of our Soul Guides will call you.
Anne says, “Before my Soul Adventure, I was completely burned out and feeling empty. After, I feel so healthy and so much happier.”
“Before my Soul Adventure, I had reached a point in my life that I was completely burned out and feeling empty, and everything took so much energy. I decided fairly quickly that I needed a spiritual retreat. I researched several places, including some a few hours from my home. From the website and after speaking with my Soul Guide, I knew Soul Adventures was where I needed to go. I went with an open mind. All the practitioners were amazing. I feel so healthy and so much happier after my experience. I love that I came home with tools to use. I look forward to my next Soul Adventure.”
~ Anne Q.
Wishing you a week filled with feeling really good!
In my last video,
If you’re feeling burned out in your relationship, give us a call and let us help you. Do you want to save your relationship? If there’s even a glimmer of hope, it’s worth saving, both for you and for your children. Please connect with us now.
Call us at (928) 204-5988 or request a call and one of our Soul Guides will call you. They’ll connect with you (or both of you if it’s a couple) and custom design a retreat that will take you from where you are to where you want to be.
Josh and Jen say their Couples Retreat was “the most amazing experience of our lives and as a couple. We feel like we are on fire!”
“This was probably the most amazing experience we have had in our lives and definitely as a couple. We came out of the adventure much closer and with a renewed sense of direction. We feel like we are on fire! Our lives have changed forever because of our Soul Adventure and it was just the boost we needed to grow in marriage and in life. We have a whole new perspective on our lives.”
~ Josh & Jen B.
Wishing you a week of feeling totally alive!
Those of you who have been following me for a long time know that I was a divorce attorney for 20 years in Omaha, Nebraska before I had a life-changing experience in Sedona that led me to start Sedona Soul Adventures. And since then, for the past 21 years, we’ve worked with thousands of couples, helping them to save their marriages and deepen their relationships.
One of the biggest things that I’ve seen in working with couples now for over 40 years is a problem that is so easy to solve it’s almost magical. And that’s making your relationship a priority.
Are you feeling like the spark has faded in your marriage? Trust me, you’re not alone. It happens to the best of us. Life gets busy with all the responsibilities of marriage, kids, and work, and before you know it, you and your partner are drifting apart. But don’t worry, because there’s a way to reignite that flame and save your relationship.
Remember those early days of falling in love when you couldn’t get enough of each other? Well, it’s time to bring back that connection.
One of the biggest complaints we hear from couples is the lack of quality time and communication. It’s so easy to get caught up in the daily grind and forget to nurture your relationship.
So, here’s what you can do to address this issue. Choose a calm moment to talk to your partner about it. Skip the dreaded phrase, “We need to talk,” and instead ask sincerely, “I’ve been thinking about this lately… What is one thing I could do to let you know that you’re a priority in my life?“
Listen attentively without criticizing or judging.
Once you’ve addressed this issue, express your desire to spend quality time together, just the two of you, having fun. Remember those activities you used to enjoy together? Suggest doing them again, but without demanding it. By making this suggestion, you’ll make your partner feel appreciated.
Now, let’s talk about intimacy. I know it can make some people blush or feel uncomfortable, but it’s essential to address it. Studies consistently show that happy couples have regular and mutually satisfying sex. So, if you’ve noticed a decline in your sexual connection, take the initiative to initiate it again. Surprise your partner tonight or even right now! – It’ll certainly grab their attention!
But it’s not just about grand gestures or sex. Small, thoughtful actions can make a significant difference too. Personally, I love receiving flowers, and those small gestures always melt my heart. A while ago, Richard surprised me with a Big Hug sent in a massive envelope while I was away for a week. It was the cutest thing and made me feel so loved and cherished.
So, think about what you can do for your beloved. If one person usually takes care of certain tasks, surprise them occasionally by taking over those responsibilities. Is there something they’ve always wanted to do but haven’t given themselves permission due to cost or time constraints? Invite them to do it and assure them that they are worth it. Let them know that their happiness and fulfillment matter to you.
A few months ago, we had a couple come to us and they were at the end of their rope. They were fighting all the time and they were ready to split up, especially the wife. They both worked really hard, they had two young children and the husband’s mother was very involved in their lives. They had all kinds of issues of “he does this” and “she does that,” which were very important to them, of course, but when we really sat and listened to them, all of those things were kind of inconsequential. And of course, their sex life was non-existent.
When we dug deep with them, we got down to “What’s really going on?”, we got down to the truth which was neither of them felt like they were a priority in the other’s life. “I’m not a priority in his/her life.” They both felt that the other’s jobs were more important, he felt like the kids meant more to her than he does and she felt like his mother meant more to him than she does, especially because there were many times he was taking the mother’s side.
And underneath that was, “He doesn’t really love me” and “She doesn’t really love me,” and here’s the real kicker because what we finally got to was that for both of them underneath that was, “I’m not loveable. My own wife/husband doesn’t love me, that must mean I’m not loveable.” They weren’t thinking this consciously of course, but when we dug deep, they both got it, that that was the culprit.
They both grew up in homes where they were starved for love, both the husband and the wife, and he kept trying to show up for his mother and doing things for his mother because he wanted so desperately to have his mother’s love, not because she meant more to him than his wife.
We had them do sessions individually to get at those core wounds, to dig them up and fill them back up with love. What was really amazing was that even though they both did separate breathwork sessions, each one of them had an experience of a vision of the two of them coming together in this incredible bliss and joy and love.
In their final Integration session, they said they have never been more in love and they totally know that the other person is the most important person in their life. They also told us they had more sex in the 5 days they were with us than they had in the 5 months before that.
When you can get to the root of what’s really going on, like these two did, everything else just falls away and you can come back into the love that brought you together in the first place.
How about you? Would you like to come back into that love? If so, give us call and do a couples retreat with us. Each retreat is completely private, not in groups, and custom designed for exactly what the two of you need and want.
Call us at (928) 204-5988 or request a call and one of our Soul Guides will call you. They’ll connect with you (or both of you if it’s a couple) and custom design a retreat that will take you from where you are to where you want to be.
Scott and Melis say, “Incredible! Our custom Couples Retreat was just what my wife and I needed, both for ourselves and our marriage. Never in my life have I had such a life changing experience.”
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Wishing you a week filled with all the right priorities!
Are you feeling burned out? If so, you’ve got to do something about it — as the World Health Organization has recognized, this can kill you!
Call us and speak with someone today. We’ll dig deep, finding out what’s at the root of your burnout – you probably think you know what it is, but after all these years of doing this work, I’ll tell you, it’s probably even deeper than you think. We’re masters at figuring that out, clearing it out and bringing you back in connection, joy and happiness!
Or if you’d prefer, call us at ((928) 204-5988 or click here and one of our Soul Guides will call you.
In one of my last two videos, I talked to you about burnout, but I was primarily talking there about burnout in your work and burnout in your relationship.
But today I want to talk about: Are you burned out in your life?
Most people talk about burnout with regard to work, but that’s something that’s very specific. I want to talk to you about burnout in your life. There’s a lot of similarities, but there’s also some important differences.
Very often being burned out on life has to do with a situation that feels somehow insurmountable. This happens a lot with people who are acting as caregivers to family members who are seriously ill or handicapped, for example being the primary day to day caregiver for an aging family member or taking care of someone who is in a wheelchair or who is seriously ill. That can be a really difficult situation.
Or maybe you’re a mom who is home with the kids or a dad being Mister Mom. For some people (not everyone), after a long period of time, this can become a very difficult situation.
It’s interesting to me to look at the list for burnout that is on the Harvard HelpGuide. This was prepared around work burnout in general, but look at this in relation to feeling overwhelmed at home:
What are the signs? Well again, it’s very similar to work burnout:
Do you feel unappreciated?
Do you feel like whatever you do, it’s not enough? And that it’s probably never going to be enough.
Do you feel hopeless?
These are all signs that you’re suffering from burnout and you need to do something about it. The kind of Continual stress that leads to burnout is directly linked to Heart attack, Stroke, Cancer and a Compromised Immune System.
I can’t tell you how important it is to do something about this. When I came to Sedona the first time over 20 years ago, I was completely burned out. It started with burnout with my work, but then it just took over every area of my life. I hated my work, I weighed over 40 pounds more than I weigh now, it was affecting my marriage and ultimately led to divorce. My ex husband and I had made some bad business decisions during that time, which led us into debt of over $50,000, which just added to the pressure.
I came to Sedona and I was lucky enough to find an amazing practitioner, Ranjita, who now works for me all these years later. It turned my life around, maybe it can do that for you or someone you love.
Let us help you. Call us and let us dig deep to find the causes of your burnout. we’re masters at figuring that out, clearing it out and bringing you back into connection.
I hope this helped, and if you got value from this video, please take the time to like it, share it with someone in your life who think might get something out of it, subscribe to our channel.
To get more information, go to SedonaRetreatGuide.com and get your complimentary copy of The Sedona Guide to Couples Retreats today.
Or if you’d like to talk to someone about doing a retreat that’s custom designed for you call us at (928) 204-5988.
You can have the life AND the relationship you want – I know it.
What do you think you’re getting from your beloved for Valentine’s Day? What are you giving your beloved?
I made this video a while back and it’s turned out to be one of the most popular of my videos on YouTube.
Watch this to see what I think is the most important thing you can give them.
Josh and Jen say their Couples Retreat was “the most amazing experience we have had in our lives” and “We feel like we are on fire!”
“This was probably the most amazing experience we have had in our lives and definitely as a couple. We came out of the adventure much closer and with a renewed sense of direction. We feel like we are on fire! We are ready to go out into the world and live our lives with joy and purpose! We want to make the most of our human experience and use our close partnership to support each other’s life purposes. Our lives have changed forever because of our Soul Adventure and it was just the boost we needed to grow in marriage and in life. We have a whole new perspective on our lives and we can truly see the endless possibilities now. We both feel so blessed that we were able to experience this adventure together and we will most definitely return to discover even more about our true selves as we travel along this path. Thanks to everyone at Sedona Soul Adventures who made this experience possible. We wish for everyone to receive the love and joy that they have given us.”
Josh & Jen B.
Would you like to come back into the love and connection that brought you together in the first place? Give us a call.
If you’re not in a relationship now, maybe you need a retreat to call in your beloved? Or do deal with some other issue that you just can seem to handle. Call us today (928) 204-5988 or click here and one of our Soul Guides will call you. They’ll connect with you and custom design a retreat that’s perfect for exactly what you need and desire.
Remember there’s no cost or obligation to speak with one of our Soul Guides and you can do the retreat here in Sedona or At Home.
Would you like to speak to someone today about doing a Soul Adventure?
We’re even open on Sunday, because we’re here for you!
Remember, you can do it in-Sedona or At Home
As I always say – if you knew what could happen, you’d be calling us right now.
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What an incredible gift to give yourself or to give the two of you for Valentine’s Day – our fabulous Machu Picchu and Peru trip. It’s June 17-30 and it’s close to being full. It’s going to be spectacular.
What a perfect way for the two of you to connect – two blissful weeks in Peru, away from all the noise and hectic day to day life, seeing the incredible sites, meditating and doing ceremonies with our amazing shaman and guide, Jorge Luis Delgado, and connecting with other spiritual seekers. We’ll be in Machu Picchu on the Solstice – it doesn’t get much better than that!
That’s my beloved, my husband, Richard, and I at Machu Picchu on the Solstice two years ago. What a beautiful time that was.
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Wishing you a week filled with love on fire!
Happy Valentine’s Day! The day of love and lovers.
On this special day, I want to tell you about something I’ve come to believe, just in the past year, about relationships. It’s something that seems like I should have known this all along and when you hear it, you’re probably going to say something like, “Well, of course, Debra, everybody knows that.”
But just stay with me for a moment because I think you might be surprised to find out that what I think the #1 thing that you either have or don’t have in your relationship, that either makes it or breaks it and that is…
Are you nurturing each other?
Does your beloved nurture you?
And are you nurturing your beloved?
It seems like a simple question, but it’s not at all. Because it’s about a way of being. It’s a decision you’re making, in every moment.
Do you truly want to nurture your beloved?
Do you want to nurture them in the way they want to be nurtured?
Or are you constantly picking at them, criticizing them and thinking nasty thoughts about them?
As most of you know, I was a divorce attorney for over 20 years and now I’ve done couples work in Sedona for almost 20 years. It appears to me that relationships are either mainly in the “I love you” zone or the “You drive me crazy” zone. And it seems like once you’ve rounded the corner into the “you drive me crazy” zone, there’s not much going back unless you really do something about it.
There are basic problems that seem to show up a lot when the nurturing factor isn’t there. And in my experience, there are things that seem unique to women and unique to men. This is also borne out in John Grey’s Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus series of books (so please don’t write me that I’m stereotyping — I’ve watched this for almost 40 years!).
If you’re a woman, do you:
If you’re a man:
These are all danger signs. Big signals telling you, “STOP! You’ve got to do something here.”
If you’re a woman, stop complaining and stop doing everything because he’s not doing it right.
If you’re a man, start listening and start really engaging emotionally with her.
The biggest thing, is that you both have to make this basic decision: “I love this person and I want to nurture them.”
So many books and articles say that communication is the most important thing in a relationship and of course, communication is extremely important, but think about it…
Deciding to truly nurture your partner is at another layer below communication and everything else. If you are in nurturing mode, your communication will always be wonderful, the way you treat them will always be wonderful, and you’ll be having the perfect amount of sex and time together, because it will be based on each of you nurturing the other.
If you’re finding that you’re out of the nurturing zone, you can recognize that and you can do something about it. You literally can shift everything around by making this simple decision:
I want to nurture this person and I’m going to figure out how to do that.
It takes
Now I know, doing these things is easier said than done. Letting go of past resentments is usually pretty difficult for both parties and that’s usually what’s holding one or both of you back from really getting into and staying in the nurturing zone.
Or maybe you don’t have clarity about what you truly want. It’s hard to go out of your way to do something for the other person when you’re maybe not 100% sure that you want to be with them.
Let us help you get back into the nurturing zone. Come to Sedona and do a Couples Retreat. Give it to yourselves as a Valentine’s Day present. Wouldn’t that be the most amazing present you’ve ever had? Coming back into the love and connection that brought you together in the first place?
Call us and connect with one of our Angel Guides. They’ll connect with both of you separately and really dig deep to discover what’s keeping you out of the nurturing zone. Then they’ll put together a retreat that’s custom designed for exactly what you need and want, to bring you back into the love and connection and sizzle that you crave, giving you tools to stay in the nurturing zone forever.
If you’d like more information, go to SedonaRetreatGuide.com and get your complimentary copy of The Sedona Guide to Couples Retreats today.
Or even better, if you’d like to talk to someone about doing a retreat that’s custom designed for you call us today at (928) 204-5988.
If you got value from this video, please like, share the video with someone you think might get something out of it and subscribe to our channel.
You can have the life AND the relationship you want – I know it.
Or if you’d prefer, call us at (928) 204-5988 or click here and one of our Soul Guides will call you.
They’ll connect with you in deep conversation. Then they’ll custom design the perfect retreat for you, working with our Master Practitioners here in beautiful, mystical Sedona or from the comfort of your own home.
Would you like to speak to someone today about doing a Soul Adventure? We’re even open on Sunday, because we’re here for you! Remember, there’s no cost or obligation and you can do it in-Sedona or At Home.
We see it all the time in our Couples Retreats — what the people are telling us is the problem is usually not what’s REALLY causing the problems. It’s almost always something much deeper.
If you have any issues going on in your relationship (and let’s face it, most of us do) I REALLY want you to watch this video. After being a divorce attorney for 20 years and working with couples here at Sedona Soul Adventures for almost 20 years, I know that the #1 problem that most couples have is not communication – it’s the lack of nurturing each other…of getting what you need and giving what the other one needs.
Watch this video I did 2 years ago and you’ll see what I’m talking about:
Let us help you get back into the Nurturing Zone. Do a Couples Retreat with us either here in Sedona or in the comfort of your own home. Can you imagine how good it would feel to come back into the love and connection that brought you together in the first place?
Call us and connect with one of our Angel Guides. They’ll connect with both of you separately and really dig deep to discover what’s keeping you out of the Nurturing Zone.
Then they’ll put together a retreat that’s custom designed for exactly what you need and want, and to bring you back into the love, connection and sizzle that you crave.
Or if you’d prefer, call us at (928) 204-5988 or click here and one of our Retreat Guides will call you.
Would you like to speak to someone today? We’re even open on Sundays, because we’re here for you. And remember, there’s no cost or obligation and you can do your retreat either in Sedona or At Home.
You might also like to download your free copy of our “Sedona Guide to Couples Retreats.” That will give you a real idea of what we do and how it works. But please — for the sake of your relationship, do something to get yourself back into the Nurturing Zone.
Sherri completes her 4th Retreat (!) her 2nd Couples Retreat, and says, “Every experience has been unique and special, and worth every penny!!!”
Wishing you a week filled with love and nurturing!
Today I’m going to talk to you about How to get what you want in your relationship. If you’ve been following me for a while, you probably already know that I was a divorce attorney in Omaha, Nebraska for over 20 years. And then in 2002, I started Sedona Soul Adventures, where we do retreats for individuals and couples. So I spent 20 years divorcing people, and now I’ve spent almost 20 years helping people stay together.
Our record for helping people with their relationships is absolutely stunning and it’s because we’re able to dig deep to get at the root of the problem, and sometimes the problem is not what either person thinks it is. A big piece of this is finding out what each of you need in your relationship and deciding if you are willing to give it to the other person?
We had a couple here last year and it was stunning. The husband had an affair and on the surface it looked like just one of the usual situations that sadly we see a lot of. They had grown apart and the husband, I’ll call him Mike, had an affair. Even though he said he loved his wife, I’ll call her Linda, and he adored their two children, the affair had happened and it had gone on longer than Mike had originally told Linda. Linda, of course, was devastated and really, really angry and felt like she could never trust him again. And of course, those reactions are completely natural.
Mike’s father was a womanizer and his mother left his father when he was very young. He and his mother went to live with relatives in a household that was basically full of men-hating women. Mike grew up hearing about how terrible men are, how you can’t trust them and they’re all womanizers, and he grew up afraid that he would be like that too. But he wasn’t, he’d been married for 20 years, had never had the urge to have an affair and was even saying to us over and over again, “I can’t believe I did that, I can’t believe I jeopardized my whole life” like that.
Linda grew up in a family where her mother constantly criticized her father and so Linda thought that’s how you communicate with a husband. You get him to do what you want by criticizing him.
We discovered through our process that the needs that Mike has are Words of Praise and Gifts.
At this point, this might sound to some of you like the Love Languages work that is out there, which I like, but what we do is very different and very specific for each person.
We discovered through our process that the needs that Linda has are Listening, Conversation and Protection.
Which also made sense because Linda’s mother also criticized Linda and her father would never stand up for her with her mother, so Linda grew up believing, “I have no one to protect me.”
So Linda needs a man who will talk to her and protect her. And we quickly discovered that Mike just simply wasn’t talking to her and really hadn’t been throughout their marriage and she was, quite understandably, upset about it. And of course, the affair was the ultimate betrayal, how could anyone feel protected by someone who had betrayed them?
Mike didn’t want to have a lot of conversations with Linda because she was constantly criticizing him. She thought she was “helping him” by telling him what to do and how to do it, but it all just felt like criticism to him and Linda got it, how it would feel like that to him.
So here we have a man whose most basic relationship need is Words of Praise and all he’s getting is Criticism. We have a woman whose most basic relationship need is Conversation and we have a man who won’t talk to her.
But then here’s the kicker:
When we discovered that Mike’s other need was Gifts, we asked him about that. He started tearing up as he told us that he never got gifts when he was growing up, not even for his birthday.
And guess who gives him gifts? The woman that he had an affair with. And guess what else she gave him? Words of Praise. His other deepest need. It wasn’t about sex, it was about him feeling valued.
When Mike and Linda realized they were living in this crazy, vicious cycle of he needs Words of Praise and she’s criticizing him, and she needs Conversation and he doesn’t want to talk to her because he doesn’t want to get criticized…and how this had much more to do with their childhoods than with what is going on now…and it’s just this crazy thing that keeps on happening and keeps on going back and forth until someone finally says, “STOP! Wait a minute. He needs Words of Praise and Gifts, are you willing to give that to him?”
And we say to him, “She needs conversation and protection, are you willing to give that to her?” It was harder for him to say yes, because they had 20 years of not really talking to each other. But when she saw him tear up over the gifts thing, her heart just melted. When he got that she was just doing what her mother had taught her to do, he got it. They both got it — that you have to give the other one what they need, not what you think they need, but what they need and want, you have to nurture them in what they need.
If you’re not willing to do that, you don’t have a relationship. And you certainly don’t have a relationship that’s going to last for very much longer.
Now understand, I’m not saying that what Mike did was okay, far from it. Having an affair is simply not okay, but when Linda understood all this, she really got it, her heart opened and she was able to forgive him and love him again.
So How about you?
Do you know what you want in a relationship? I’ve been surprised to discover that most people don’t.
Do you know (really) what your partner wants?
Do you care? That’s actually the most important one, because if you aren’t willing to give your partner what they want, things aren’t going to work.
Have you spent any time thinking about how your parents were with each other because that can be really telling.
Were they happy?
Were they loving with each other?
Did they talk?
Did they fight?
What did they teach you? (Even though they probably didn’t think they were teaching you.)
But even more deeply, how was your childhood?
Did you feel loved?
Did you feel valued?
Were you criticized?
Did you grow up believing there’s something wrong with you?
Sadly, for many of us, things happen to make us believe that we’re not enough, that we don’t deserve love and then we bring all that into our relationships and it comes out in all kinds of crazy ways, like having affairs and mistreating the person we’re supposed to love.
What do you really want?
What do you crave?
What do you need?
Come to Sedona and we’ll help you discover that and help move out the blocks that are keeping you from the loving relationship you desire. That’s what we do all day, every day with our custom-designed retreats.
What you need is probably different than what your partner needs. The blocks that have happened for you are the result of different things that caused the blocks for your partner. We’ll dig all that out and bring you into the love that’s waiting for you.
Go to SedonaRetreatGuide.com and get your complimentary copy of The Sedona Guide to Couples Retreats today.
Or even better, if you’d like to talk to someone about doing a retreat that’s custom designed for exactly what the two of you need, call us at 928/204-5988.
I hope this helped, and if you got value from this video, please take the time to like it, share it with someone in your life who think might get something out of it and subscribe to our channel.
You can have the life AND the relationship you want – I know it!
What do you think you’re getting from your beloved for Valentine’s Day? What are you giving your beloved?
Watch this to see what I think is the most important thing you can give them.
Josh and Jen say their Couples Retreat was “the most amazing experience we have had in our lives” and “We feel like we are on fire!”
“This was probably the most amazing experience we have had in our lives and definitely as a couple. We came out of the adventure much closer and with a renewed sense of direction. We feel like we are on fire! We are ready to go out into the world and live our lives with joy and purpose! We want to make the most of our human experience and use our close partnership to support each other’s life purposes. Our lives have changed forever because of our Soul Adventure and it was just the boost we needed to grow in marriage and in life. We have a whole new perspective on our lives and we can truly see the endless possibilities now. We both feel so blessed that we were able to experience this adventure together and we will most definitely return to discover even more about our true selves as we travel along this path. Thanks to everyone at Sedona Soul Adventures who made this experience possible. We wish for everyone to receive the love and joy that they have given us.”
Josh & Jen B.
Would you like to come back into the love and connection that brought you together in the first place? Give us a call.
If you’re not in a relationship now, maybe you need a retreat to call in your beloved? Or do deal with some other issue that you just can seem to handle. Call us today (928) 204-5988 or click here and one of our Retreat Guides will call you. They’ll connect with you and custom design a retreat that’s perfect for exactly what you need and desire.
Remember there’s no cost or obligation to speak with one of our Angel Guides and you can do the retreat here in Sedona or At Home.
Would you like to speak to someone today about doing a Soul Adventure?
We’re even open on Sunday, because we’re here for you!
Remember, you can do it in-Sedona or At Home
As I always say – if you knew what could happen, you’d be calling us right now.
The perfect Gift for your beloved (or, even better, for the two of you!) – Our Machu Picchu and Peru trip (June 17-30)
100% Refundable up to April 1
What an incredible gift to give yourself or to give the two of you for Valentine’s Day – our fabulous Machu Picchu and Peru trip. It’s June 17-30 and it’s close to being full. It’s going to be spectacular.
What a perfect way for the two of you to connect – two blissful weeks in Peru, away from all the noise and hectic day to day life, seeing the incredible sites, meditating and doing ceremonies with our amazing shaman and guide, Jorge Luis Delgado, and connecting with other spiritual seekers. We’ll be in Machu Picchu on the Solstice – it doesn’t get much better than that!
That’s my beloved, my husband, Richard, and I at Machu Picchu on the Solstice two years ago. What a beautiful time that was.
And if you’re traveling alone, that’s no problem! Most of the people on trip are Singles, you’ll have life long friends within 48 hours… that’s what always happens on our trips.
PRICING
Remember the trip is 100% Refundable up to April 1.
If you’d like to see glowing testimonials from our past trips (“best trip I’ve ever been on,” “Jorge is so incredible,” “everything was perfect”), Click here.
If you have any questions about our fabulous journey, send me an email at [email protected].
Or better yet, give me a call – I love talking about Peru! Call me toll-free at (877) 204-3664.
If you already know you want to go, Click here to make your Risk Free Deposit*.
Join us for our 10 week “Opening To Your Intuition” Seminar and Training starting March 6
I am so excited about our newest offering “Opening To Your Intuition,” a 10-week personal and professional development training program created and taught by one of our fabulous Practitioners, Komala Rohde.
Komala is an internationally known teacher of intuitive work and meditation and we are so excited to offer this fantastic program to you.
Would you like to:
The program includes extensive instruction, practical tools, mindfulness techniques, meditation practices and exercises that will enhance your understanding and application of Intuition in your personal life and professional expression.
You’ll walk away from the program with a solid understanding of what Intuition is. You will be in deeper connection with your own Intuition and you will have tools to continue to practice your intuitive skills.
If you’ve always wanted to explore your intuitive abilities, this is the perfect opportunity!
Sign up now, space is limited. For more information, Click here.
Wishing you a week filled with love on fire!
Happy Valentine’s Day! The day of love and lovers.
On this special day, I want to tell you about something I’ve come to believe, just in the past year, about relationships. It’s something that seems like I should have known this all along and when you hear it, you’re probably going to say something like, “Well, of course, Debra, everybody knows that.”
But just stay with me for a moment because I think you might be surprised to find out that what I think the #1 thing that you either have or don’t have in your relationship, that either makes it or breaks it and that is…
Are you nurturing each other?
Does your beloved nurture you?
And are you nurturing your beloved?
It seems like a simple question, but it’s not at all. Because it’s about a way of being. It’s a decision you’re making, in every moment.
Do you truly want to nurture your beloved?
Do you want to nurture them in the way they want to be nurtured?
Or are you constantly picking at them, criticizing them and thinking nasty thoughts about them?
As most of you know, I was a divorce attorney for over 20 years and now I’ve done couples work in Sedona for almost 20 years. It appears to me that relationships are either mainly in the “I love you” zone or the “You drive me crazy” zone. And it seems like once you’ve rounded the corner into the “you drive me crazy” zone, there’s not much going back unless you really do something about it.
There are basic problems that seem to show up a lot when the nurturing factor isn’t there. And in my experience, there are things that seem unique to women and unique to men. This is also borne out in John Grey’s Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus series of books (so please don’t write me that I’m stereotyping — I’ve watched this for almost 40 years!).
If you’re a woman, do you:
If you’re a man:
These are all danger signs. Big signals telling you, “STOP! You’ve got to do something here.”
If you’re a woman, stop complaining and stop doing everything because he’s not doing it right.
If you’re a man, start listening and start really engaging emotionally with her.
The biggest thing, is that you both have to make this basic decision: “I love this person and I want to nurture them.”
So many books and articles say that communication is the most important thing in a relationship and of course, communication is extremely important, but think about it…
Deciding to truly nurture your partner is at another layer below communication and everything else. If you are in nurturing mode, your communication will always be wonderful, the way you treat them will always be wonderful, and you’ll be having the perfect amount of sex and time together, because it will be based on each of you nurturing the other.
If you’re finding that you’re out of the nurturing zone, you can recognize that and you can do something about it. You literally can shift everything around by making this simple decision:
I want to nurture this person and I’m going to figure out how to do that.
It takes
Now I know, doing these things is easier said than done. Letting go of past resentments is usually pretty difficult for both parties and that’s usually what’s holding one or both of you back from really getting into and staying in the nurturing zone.
Or maybe you don’t have clarity about what you truly want. It’s hard to go out of your way to do something for the other person when you’re maybe not 100% sure that you want to be with them.
Let us help you get back into the nurturing zone. Come to Sedona and do a Couples Retreat. Give it to yourselves as a Valentine’s Day present. Wouldn’t that be the most amazing present you’ve ever had? Coming back into the love and connection that brought you together in the first place?
Call us and connect with one of our Angel Guides. They’ll connect with both of you separately and really dig deep to discover what’s keeping you out of the nurturing zone. Then they’ll put together a retreat that’s custom designed for exactly what you need and want, to bring you back into the love and connection and sizzle that you crave, giving you tools to stay in the nurturing zone forever.
If you’d like more information, go to SedonaRetreatGuide.com and get your complimentary copy of The Sedona Guide to Couples Retreats today.
Or even better, if you’d like to talk to someone about doing a retreat that’s custom designed for you call us today at (928) 204-5988.
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You can have the life AND the relationship you want – I know it.
So wow. 2020. What can we say? What a year. To turn around what Dickens said, it feels like “it was the worst of times, it was the best of times.” So much death and illness and sadness and shutdowns and cancellations and lives put on hold.
But it’s also been so interesting to me that so many I speak with feel like this year has been so wonderful on so many levels, because it’s almost been like a re-set. The entire world had to take a big breath, go inside and discover what was there.
And now it’s time to say good-bye to 2020 and I feel we have an opportunity to make 2021 be absolutely incredible, or as I call it, a Kick Ass Year!
There are a number of things you can do to make that happen and that’s what I’m going to share with you in my Masterclass, “How To Have A Kick Ass New Year.”
Vision. We’ll start with a fabulous process to help you discover exactly what you want in all the key areas of your life.
What do I need to do? We’ll identify the gaps between where you are and where you want to be, and figure out ways to bridge that gap.
We’ll develop a game plan. I’ll give you a step by step process to chunk down your dreams and your goals to ensure they’ll happen.
Plus, I’ll be giving you ideas, tips and processes that will help you all throughout the year.
What a wonderful way to start 2021 with a bang!
I hope you’ll join me. To have as many people join as possible, the cost is only $20.21, isn’t that cute? Click here to register.
We’ll be live on Zoom and if you can’t be with us live, we’ll be sending out a recording so you can do the processes anytime you want.
And if you really want to start the New Year out right, my #1 suggestion is always to do a Sedona Soul Adventure. The biggest problem that I see that is going on with almost everyone I meet, is that they have gunk and blocks and core wounds and unconscious limiting beliefs that are holding them back. And the biggest problem is that they are unconscious – we don’t even know what they are and we certainly don’t know how to deal with them.
That’s what a Soul Adventure does – we uncover and discover and root out all this stuff that’s holding you back or causing the trouble, we move it and release it, and bring you back into connection on all the levels – physical, mental, emotional, spiritual. When you’re operating in connection, you’re able to live the life and relationship of your dreams.
Greysa came to us filled with grief, which many people are feeling about now. Grief from loss, grief over things that might have been, grief over how difficult this past year has been, grief over your life or relationship not giving you the joy or love you’re craving. After her Soul Adventure, she’s now filled with peace and love and certainty about the beautiful future that awaits her. Wouldn’t you love to feel that way going into the New Year?
Give us a call. Speak with one of our Angel Guides. They’ll start the process of bringing you from where you are to where you want to be. And remember, there’s no cost or obligation and you can do the retreat either here in-Sedona or At Home.
Call us today at 928-204-5988 or Click here and we’ll call you.
Would you like to speak to someone today about doing a Soul Adventure?
We’re even open on Sunday, because we’re here for you!
And remember, there’s no cost or obligation.
We have one more spot (male or female) left for our Egypt trip
February 13-26, 2021
I’m so happy and excited that our Egypt trip is happening! We have one more spot left, so if you’d like to go, you need to decide now to join us on this trip of a lifetime.
Egypt has done an amazing job with handling the virus. I think one of the reasons may be that they require everyone coming to Egypt to have a negative COVID test 72 hours before entering the country. So they’ve been very strict about that, and it has really made a difference.
Can you believe this is going to be my 21st trip to Egypt?!? It’s just astounding, and I have to say I’m so incredibly excited about this next trip, it’s like it’s the first time all over again!
We go to all the must see places:
But we’ll also be going to places the average tourist doesn’t always see:
And Guardian Travel has made special arrangements for us to see:
To see the actual tomb and the mummy of King Tutankamun is so amazing. We will also see the treasures of the tomb in the Egyptian Museum in Cairo. King Seti I’s tomb is absolutely spectacular and Queen Nefertari’s tomb (she was the favorite wife of Ramses II) has been called, “The Sistine Chapel of Egypt.” Very few people are allowed to see these tombs, so this is a very special part of our trip this year.
Plus, one of the most important parts of this trip is doing ceremonies and meditations, and really connecting with the energy of this sacred place. Can you imagine having two hours of private time just for our group inside the Great Pyramid? This is on the last day of our trip and it’s always astonishing, and one of the major parts of this life-changing trip.
We’ll also be discussing the alternative theories of ancient Egypt that our tours are famous for, including who built the Pyramids, who built the Sphinx (and when) and why are there carvings of a helicopter, a tank and a submarine in the walls of the Temple of Abydos? Can you see them in this photo?
And just the way we do everything!
And we just have fun. Here’s a picture from our galabaya night on our cruise ship when we dress like an Egyptian (fun fact: these two wonderful people (Pete and Kirsty) met on the Egypt trip, married one year later and now have two children!). I just got their Christmas card in the mail today!
Amazing things happen on this trip!
The price is virtually all-inclusive. It includes:
The only things that aren’t covered are your beverages and flight to New York and, of course, shopping.
And speaking of shopping, that will be even more incredible this year. Currently the conversion rate of the US dollar is incredible. The conversion rate is 15.1 to 1, meaning 15 Egyptian pounds per American dollar. This is a major difference from the past few years when the exchange rate was 3 to 1. This incredible rate is going to mean unbelievable shopping in Egypt this year. Egypt is well known for gold and silver jewelry, papyrus, alabaster, hand blown glass, perfumes and oils, and hand made rugs made of cotton, wool or silk. This is going to be even more spectacular this year.
And to go on a journey like this with like-minded travelers – it’s just the icing on the cake. Don’t be concerned if you don’t have a companion to travel with – our groups are typically in love with each other within 48 hours, making friends that last a lifetime. And if you want a roommate, we can probably arrange that for you.
If you want to look at all the details on the trip:
And while you’re on our web page, watch my brief video on what makes the trip so special.
For information on the Day to Day Itinerary – Click Here
For all the information on Pricing – Click Here
If you already know you want to go, Click here to place your deposit.
If you have any questions about our trip, send me an email at: [email protected]
Or feel free to give me a call. Here’s how:
Or Click here and I’ll call you – I love talking about Egypt!
I hope you’ll join me on this trip of a lifetime!
Wishing you a fabulous New Year filled with hope and joy!
This year (during the pandemic), I started doing my Meeting The Masters interview program, which has also been turned into a podcast, and I have enjoyed it so much.
I have met and interviewed so many incredible people, including Dr. John Gray (“Men Are From Mars/Woman Are From Venus”) John Assaraf (from “The Secret”), Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor (a brain scientist whose account of the spiritual experience she had while having a stroke was the first ever Ted Talk to go viral) and many others.
It has been so enlightening and so much fun connecting with these amazing people and bringing their stories to you.
But I have to tell you, when I spoke with Nealle Donald Walsch last week, it was an absolutely incredible experience. He is the author of the “Conversations With God” book series. When that first book came out in 1995, it really changed my life. He’s written 37 books since then, impacting millions of people all over the planet.
In our interview, he talks about breaking his neck, being homeless, desperately trying to find work and how the first conversation with God happened. Then he starts discussing the wisdom of his new book, “The God Solution,” which just came out December 10th. His people sent me the manuscript so I could read it before our interview, and I loved it!
His premise is that studies show that over 85% of the world’s population say they believe in God or a Higher Power or Universal energy, or something along that line, and since so many of us have that in common, shouldn’t there be a way for us to find common ground and use that for solving the world’s problems?
As he says in the interview, this book is a compilation of all of his other 37 books combined. He explains exactly what the God Solution is and how all of us can tap into the power of pure love.
The book is so timely – it speaks about the pandemic, the racial injustice and economic crisis gripping the planet right now and the role of God in solving these problems. When I asked him how he got the book published so quickly, he talked about the “miracles” that made that happen, so that it could connect with as many people as possible, as quickly as possible. Watch the interview here:
Neale Donald Walsch from Sedona Soul Adventures on Vimeo.
Please watch the interview, it is so full of wisdom, and I want to encourage you to read the book. Here’s the link to buy it on Amazon. And just to let you know, I’m not paid anything for recommending his book – I just think it’s fabulous and as many people as possible should read it as soon as possible.
Here’s to Pure Love!
In reading Nealle’s book, I was reminded again and again about how important it is for all of us to come back into love, to stay out of judgment and to really love ourselves. And it hurts me to know that there are so many people who aren’t able to do that. Not so much because they don’t want to, but because they don’t know how. So many of us are so stuck in our hurts and our wounds and our unhappiness, and it just looks like there’s no way out.
That’s how I felt when I came to Sedona for the first time (and oh my goodness, next month it will be 22 years ago!). I felt helpless and hopeless and stuck. I came here, spent three days with someone who is still one of our wonderful Practitioners, and my life was changed.
That can happen for you. Look what just happened for Stephanie last week:
Before her Soul Adventure, Stephanie was:
After her Soul Adventure:
And that’s what we do all day every day for the individuals who come to us.
And ironically, here’s a different Stephanie talking about what happened during their Couples Retreat last month:
Look at what happened to them as a result of their Couples Retreat:
I can’t think of a better present that anyone could give themselves than the gift of peace and love, and that’s what happens with our Sedona Soul Adventures. If you’d like to give yourself that gift, please call us, we’d like to give that gift to you.
We’ll connect with you (or both of you for a Couples Retreat) and we’ll start the process of figuring out what’s holding you back or what’s causing the problems in your life or your relationship. Then we’ll custom design a retreat of private one-on-one or two-on-one (for Couples) sessions with the Master Practitioners of Sedona (we have over 50). Each session leads to the next and builds toward a crescendo of transformation. We’ve been doing this work for almost 20 years and it still amazes me what happens. As I always say, if you knew what could happen, you’d be calling right now.
Remember, there’s no cost or obligation to speak with an Angel Guide and you can do your Soul Adventure in-Sedona or from the comfort of your own home.
Call us today at 928-204-5988 or Click here and we’ll call you.
Would you like to speak to someone today about doing a Soul Adventure?
We’re even open on Sunday, because we’re here for you!
And remember, there’s no cost or obligation.
Join us for our Return To Egypt Tour
We Still Need A Female Roommate
February 13-26, 2021
It’s so funny, last week we put out the call for a female roommate and a wonderful woman called me and decided to go, and then it turns out one of her friends wants to go on the trip, so now we still need a roommate! We’d love to have you join us.
As I told you last week, unlike here in the United States, the COVID numbers in Egypt are very low. Their tourist season is underway and in fact, one of my friends was just there with a group and had a fabulous time! Also, Egypt is requiring everyone to have a negative COVID test 72 hours before entering the country. That’s one of the ways they’re keeping it under control.
We have one of our people who would like a roommate (female). That will save you the $1200 cost of having your own room in the hotels and on the Nile Cruise. Could that be you?
Can you believe this is going to be my 21st trip to Egypt?!? It’s just astounding, and I have to say I’m so incredibly excited about this next trip, it’s like it’s the first time all over again!
We go to all the must see places:
But we’ll also be going to places the average tourist doesn’t always see:
And Guardian Travel has made special arrangements for us to see:
To see the actual tomb and the mummy of King Tutankamun is so amazing. We will also see the treasures of the tomb in the Egyptian Museum in Cairo. King Seti I’s tomb is absolutely spectacular and Queen Nefertari’s tomb (she was the favorite wife of Ramses II) has been called, “The Sistine Chapel of Egypt.” Very few people are allowed to see these tombs, so this is a very special part of our trip this year.
Plus, one of the most important parts of this trip is doing ceremonies and meditations, and really connecting with the energy of this sacred place. Can you imagine having two hours of private time just for our group inside the Great Pyramid? This is on the last day of our trip and it’s always astonishing, and one of the major parts of this life-changing trip.
We’ll also be discussing the alternative theories of ancient Egypt that our tours are famous for, including who built the Pyramids, who built the Sphinx (and when) and why are there carvings of a helicopter, a tank and a submarine in the walls of the Temple of Abydos? Can you see them in this photo?
And just the way we do everything!
And we just have fun. Here’s a picture from our galabaya night on our cruise ship when we dress like an Egyptian (fun fact: these two wonderful people (Pete and Kirsty) met on the Egypt trip, married one year later and now have two children!).
Amazing things happen on this trip!
The price is virtually all-inclusive. It includes:
The only things that aren’t covered are your beverages and flight to New York and, of course, shopping.
And speaking of shopping, that will be even more incredible this year. Currently the conversion rate of the US dollar is incredible. The conversion rate is 15.1 to 1, meaning 15 Egyptian pounds per American dollar. This is a major difference from the past few years when the exchange rate was 3 to 1. This incredible rate is going to mean unbelievable shopping in Egypt this year. Egypt is well known for gold and silver jewelry, papyrus, alabaster, hand blown glass, perfumes and oils, and hand made rugs made of cotton, wool or silk. This is going to be even more spectacular this year.
And to go on a journey like this with like-minded travelers – it’s just the icing on the cake. Don’t be concerned if you don’t have a companion to travel with – our groups are typically in love with each other within 48 hours, making friends that last a lifetime. And if you want a roommate, we can probably arrange that for you.
If you want to look at all the details on the trip:
And while you’re on our web page, watch my brief video on what makes the trip so special.
For information on the Day to Day Itinerary – Click Here
For all the information on Pricing – Click Here
If you already know you want to go, Click here to place your deposit.
If you have any questions about our trip, send me an email at: [email protected]
Or feel free to give me a call. Here’s how:
Or Click here and I’ll call you – I love talking about Egypt!
I hope you’ll join me on this trip of a lifetime!
Finally, I hope you and yours have a fantastic holiday season. Sending you so much love from Sedona. Wishing you a week filled with your favorite things! |