Do you ever look at your husband, wife or partner and have a thought along the lines of, “What was I thinking?” or “If he/she says another word, I’m going to run screaming out of the house!”?
Wouldn't it be fantastic if you could fall back in love with that person?
Well, help is on the way - watch my video. I did this video a while ago, but I just came across it again and it's a good one and I think it can really help!
Sometimes your relationship really needs a shot in the arm (or better yet, the heart). Call us and one of our Soul Guides will speak with each of you separately, really getting at what's going on, what are the issues and what do both of you want? Then they'll put together the perfect retreat that's right for the two of you.
Because each retreat is completely customized and because the sessions are all completely private (not in groups), you'll get exactly what you need. It will bring you back into the Love and Connection you're craving.
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Lori and Michio say, “Before our Soul Adventure, we WERE going to Divorce, after Sedona Soul Adventures, we are closer than we have ever been, we are forever changed” (and that’s 90 days after their retreat!)
I love it so much that Lori waited 3 MONTHS(!) to write that, because she wanted to see if the experience would last.
I’m so happy to say, that’s exactly what happens with a Sedona Soul Adventure! It works and it lasts! They did this retreat in 2019 and they are still happily married, we just connected with them about a month ago.
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Your relationship?
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Or is it something else?
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Wishing you a week filled with what Lori and Michio found - peace, kindness, compassion, depth and each other!
In the last video, I talk with you about “How to bring in the love of your life.” But what about all of you out there who are already with someone, and you’ve been together for awhile… and he isn’t exactly Prince Charming anymore…or she’s not exactly getting you all excited like she used to?
In other words, even if the bloom is off the rose, can you turn them back into the love of your life?
The answer is Yes! and it’s actually pretty simple…not necessarily easy, but it is simple.
It comes down to two things and after I tell you about the two things, I’m going to tell you about two processes you can use to implement the two things.
Here are the two things – and I promise they work. Most of you know that I was a divorce attorney for over 20 years and I’ve now done couples work at Sedona Soul Adventures for 17 years – I know what I’m talking about.
If your relationship is not making you deliriously happy, see what happens when you…
- Stop focusing on what you don’t like
- Start being what you want
From my other videos, I’ve spoken so much about Quantum Physics and how things can be changed. I’ve talked about the ideas of Einstein and other Quantum Physicists, that…
Everything is energy
What we focus on, we get more of
We are all creating our reality in every moment
What we think about and talk about expands
1. Stop focusing on what you don’t like
So look at this in relationship to how you’re dealing with your husband, wife or partner. If you’ve decided there’s something “wrong” with them, don’t you find yourself just constantly noticing every little thing about that. If you’re telling yourself (and your friends and your mother) that your husband is a slob, do you see how every single time he even leaves a sock out that it makes you crazy? And then you berate him and he feels like he can never do anything right?
And if you feel like your wife doesn’t love and appreciate you, do you notice how often you notice that she doesn’t love and appreciate you? You’ll find it, sometimes even when it’s not there.
If you want your relationship to turn around, you have to do something to make it turn around… maybe even something to turn it on its head.
Which brings us to the second thing:
2. Start being what you want
If you want your husband to be more romantic, you be more romantic. Bring him roses – that will get his attention.
If you want your wife to be more understanding, you be more understanding. Ask her about her day. Ask her how she’s doing, how she’s feeling. Ask and then just sit and listen. One of my practitioner friends says “For women, the most powerful aphrodisiac in the world is listening.”
Gandhi said “Be the change you want to see in the world.”
I’m not sure he meant it with regard to relationships, but I’m pretty sure he would agree. It starts with you.
I promised you two processes that will really help with this and they help because they actually start to move the energy. The first is the first process in my book: Change Your Story, Change Your Life.
For 30 days, make a decision that you are going to tell yourself a different story about your husband, wife or partner. If the old thoughts come up, just stop them and think about something else. Don’t say anything negative about your partner to anyone else, including yourself.
In addition to changing your story, during that same 30 days, keep a gratitude journal.
Every morning, take three minutes (that’s all!) and write five things that you are truly grateful for about the person. It must be things that are true for you. So, if it’s something about your mate it could be:
- I love his/her beautiful blue eyes.
- I love that he/she likes dogs.
- I love that he/she is good at his job.
- I love that he has things that he enjoys, like baseball.
- I love that he/she loves our children.
After you have written down the “High 5,” take just a moment to close your eyes, take a deep breath and truly FEEL the gratitude for this person or situation. The more you can infuse Emotion into the process, the faster things will start to move. If you find you can’t muster the feeling, it’s okay – just breathe and let it go. As you move more and more into the process, it will start to come. Don’t force it.
Don’t tell the other person (or anyone else for that matter) that you are doing this. The magic lies in what you will start to see happening in just a short time — as little as three days!
If you do all of this for 30 days:
- Stop focusing on what you don’t like
- Start being what you want
and do the two processes:
- Change Your Story, Change Your Life
- Gratitude Journal
I think you will be absolutely amazed at how your partner has suddenly changed.
I have so many stories of how this has worked, both in people doing a Sedona Soul Adventure and in my coaching. I think my favorite is one of my coaching clients who was ready to leave because her husband would not help her with the children or any part of the housework. They both had very demanding jobs and she had begged, cajoled, yelled, screamed and threatened to leave, and nothing was having any effect on him. She would go on these tirades to him and to me about how selfish he was, that he was a male chauvinist pig, etc., etc. It took me a while to convince her to just stop with all of the arguing and yelling, but finally I got her to try it because she had tried everything else.
She changed her story and started telling her friends about how hard her husband worked at his job. She wrote in her Gratitude Journal the things she liked about him, and she kept having to repeat things because by this time she was down to just a few things that she liked about him. But suddenly, she started remembering more and more things that she liked about him and even loved about him, because he was a good man and he certainly loved their children. She suddenly started feeling all this love for him. And just as suddenly, within three weeks, he started doing the dishes. She hadn’t told him about the Gratitude Journal and she didn’t say anything when he started doing the dishes, except to say “thank you.” And then he started doing laundry. And then he started making meals. She just about fell over when one evening she came home late and he had already fed the kids and had drawn a hot bath for her.
She stopped criticizing and started saying “thank you” and “I love you,” and everything in their relationship changed. She told me last year, she’s never loved him more than she does now and he feels exactly the same way. He went from feeling criticized to feeling love, and we all react much more positively to love, I can guarantee you that.
And I can hear some of you out there saying, “But why should I be the one that has to do everything? I already have to do everything!” and I’m sorry to say, that’s exactly what’s gotten you into this loop that happens with relationships once they start to go wrong. Try this for 30 days, what have you got to lose? And let me know what happens.
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You can have the life AND the relationship you want – I know it.